
Are you a good neighbour?
Living next door to someone doesn’t make you a neighbour. It makes you an adjacent homeowner. One of the great opportunities we have in our communities here in Mossel Bay is the chance to build real, meaningful relationships with the people who live closest to us.
While I understand the desire for privacy, I think it’s important we realize that regular, helpful communication with our neighbours makes us both safer and paves a smooth road for difficult conversations we might face with our neighbours in the future.
Small gestures such as a nice note about landscaping, an invitation to a street barbecue, or an “all hands on deck” community improvement project allow us to get to know our neighbours. This is vital when you consider the people around you are the most likely to spot smoke when your house catches on fire while you’re away, clue you in to suspicious activity, and have the opportunity to share vital local information.
What’s more, if you build a positive base with your neighbours, when the time comes to have a difficult conversation (such as a barking dog, kids running amok, or intrusive lighting issues), you’ll have a buffer of mutual respect and goodwill to draw on.
If your opening conversation with a neighbor is a complaint, you’re setting yourself up for a long, antagonistic relationship. Who wants to live next to that?
It doesn’t take much to start off the right way. Consider leaving a nice note in their mailbox, a small “thank you” gift for looking out for the neighbourhood, or some other “olive branch” act that will build rapport. My wife and I were pleasantly surprised when our neighbour brought us a homemade milktart when we had moved into our house in Dana Bay. From that day on we have not complained once about her noisy little dog.
I think a civil community depends upon our connection to our neighbours. We all benefit when we depend on and trust one another. Mossel Bay will be better place for us to live in because of it.
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